Being nice is one thing but being too nice is another. Frankly it can annoy your partner or even be a huge turn off. Keep that in mind when you are afraid to stand up for yourself. Setting boundaries not only is good for you but it's also good for your relationship.
Some people might think it's mean of me to say this but in a healthy relationship both people need to "earn love". It's not just slip the ring on and for better or worse. Marriage is an on going thing to take care of. Becoming complacent is boring. Not saying what is wrong can lead to underlying anger because you feel you are taken advantage of. It's best to just spit it out and say what is wrong. It doesn't mean you have to be rude either just honest.
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This blog is all about marriage and how it can be crazy wonderful or just plain crazy.
It's about stuff I've learned, stuff I've seen and anything I basically feel like saying about marriage and relationships in general.
I called it "Until Duh Do Us Part" because I think lots of times we just don't do enough to see a marriage through and we forget that a sense of humor is needed when spending the rest of your life with that "special" person and you'll hear all about that stuff and more reading the posts on the blog.
A little hard truth mixed in with a small dose of humor here and there, I'm sure you'll be able to take away something from here and use it in real life.
BTW, I'm not a therapist or anything of the sort just an opinionated little red head. :o)
It's about stuff I've learned, stuff I've seen and anything I basically feel like saying about marriage and relationships in general.
I called it "Until Duh Do Us Part" because I think lots of times we just don't do enough to see a marriage through and we forget that a sense of humor is needed when spending the rest of your life with that "special" person and you'll hear all about that stuff and more reading the posts on the blog.
A little hard truth mixed in with a small dose of humor here and there, I'm sure you'll be able to take away something from here and use it in real life.
BTW, I'm not a therapist or anything of the sort just an opinionated little red head. :o)
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