Thursday, January 10, 2008

Partner Peeves


So, the way he breathes when he eats just sends you into a twirl and from there; he walks funny and his ears don't match either. Partner peeves can take over and ruin a good relationship if you let them. You have to remember I said you! It is by choice that you see these things and magnify them until they look a thousand times bigger than they are.


Put a new slide under your marriage microscope!

For 30 days make a list of things you like about your partner, even if it's the way his sock drawer is organized, write five of these everyday. Then write down five things about the past that were good, great and wonderful. Trips the two of you took, fun things you did, and just general memories of why you choose this person to be your partner.

In the end it's about what you see so take a closer look at the good things and the breathing, funny walking, lopsided ear monster will be the love of your life!


2 comments:

Shelly said...

i'm going to try this. It's true, we can't help but focus on the negative. So for the next 30 days I'm going to focus on the positive. The 'why i fell in love'. I'll let you know what happens.

Happy said...

Great, I can't wait to hear about your outcome.