Hey Guys... Easy Foreplay!

If you really, really, really want to seduce your wife, it's easier than you think. Well, yes it will take some work but it's simple. Ready? Ok, just do things for her. Make dinner, do the dishes, watch the kids, anything that would make her life easier will rev up the romance! Start making love to her outside the bedroom and you'll have a lot more lovemaking in the bedroom!

The Sexy Truth

Three women, one engaged, one married and one mistress are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men. They come up with a great plan and that night they all three wear black leather bras and panties, stiletto heels, and a mask over their eyes.

A few days later they meet up for lunch.

The engaged woman says, "The other night my boyfriend came over and he found me in my new outfit and said "You are the love of my life. I love you." Then we made love all night long."

The mistress said, "Me, too! The other night I met my lover at his office and I was wearing my outfit under a raincoat. When I opened the coat he didn't say a word, but we had wild sex all night."

The married woman explained, "I sent the kids to stay at my mom's hour for the night. When my husband came home, I was wearing my outfit and as soon as he came in the door and saw me he said, "What's for dinner, Batman?"

How Love Changes - Through The Years

I'm not sure if this post will be viewed as cynical or humorous, but this one is all about what a difference years can make in your relationship.

I was thinking about how it is when you hear someone young or even newly in love talk about their SO as if they are the best person on the planet. That person is perfect and if you happen to find something wrong with them there is always a good excuse for it.

Now, just find someone who has been married, let's say at least ten years plus. Now we have a totally different point of view, not that we don't love this person we have learned to love all the duh things about them.

I'm sure God made Adam and Eve and she probably thought Adam was a goof so, for the sake of populating the Earth, God had to tweak Eve to believe Adam was awesome... so there you go it's in our genetic code to like what he likes and think he is oh so wonderful long enough to accept who he is and love him anyway. ;o)

If you don't believe me; strike up a conversation about men with women in different age groups and I'm sure you'll see what I'm talking about.

The Foundation

I feel that lots of times people go into marriage having a "storybook idea" of mushy, mushy romantic love. Well, it's not! I think movies and books that even try to promote this idea should come with a disclaimer much like those diet programs that state "results not typical".

I call this post The Foundation because even when we don't like the person we are married to, as long as we have the foundation of love, we have what we need to see it through, to work through the downs, cherish in the good times and be content with those times when we just "are".

Since this is my first post I will say that foundation of love or not, there are times that a marriage shouldn't work out and that is when there is abuse involved. I will be posting about abuse and list websites in future posts so that if you or anyone you know is suffering from this they can get the help they need.