Are You Too Nice?

Being nice is one thing but being too nice is another.  Frankly it can annoy your partner or even be a huge turn off.  Keep that in mind when you are afraid to stand up for yourself.  Setting boundaries not only is good for you but it's also good for your relationship. 

Some people might think it's mean of me to say this but in a healthy relationship both people need to "earn love".  It's not just slip the ring on and for better or worse.  Marriage is an on going thing to take care of.  Becoming complacent is boring.  Not saying what is wrong can lead to underlying anger because you feel you are taken advantage of.  It's best to just spit it out and say what is wrong.  It doesn't mean you have to be rude either just honest.